Tooth Fairy, where are you?

Hi naem,

As with most developmental milestones, there is no standard for when teething will begin, how long it will last, or how painful it will be. A baby's first tooth usually comes in around the seventh month, although it can arrive as early as three months or as late as a year. Some common signs and symptoms of teething include:

Gigi Aiman dah tumbuh okey? Gigi bawah dah kuar sket, gigi atas tu malu2 lagi tapi dah nampak dah. Memang seminggu gak dia cranky. Demam sket n manje banyak!

Swelling - Swelling of the gum tissue is usually the first sign of impending tooth eruption.

Flushing or rash - Your child's cheek may appear flushed or develop a slight rash near where the tooth is erupting.

Swelling mcm takde, rash kat leher ada tapi sebab saya makan ayam kot hari tu hehe.

Drooling - Teething babies usually produce more saliva and drool excessively.

Memang air liur meleleh je setiap masa huhu.

Crankiness- Teething babies are often unusually cranky and irritable and may not sleep well.

Ye sangat cranky!

Try the following tips to help soothe teething pain:

Biting hard objects - Give your child hard objects such as teething rings, as these can ease some of the pain.

Cold - Frozen food such as a popsicle or frozen banana may also soothe your baby's gums during teething.

Numbing - There are several baby-safe teething gels available, such as Baby Orajel or Baby Ambesol, that you can apply directly to your baby's sore gums. However, some of these gels contain sugar so use them sparingly.

Baby ibuprofen - If your baby is going through a particularly painful phase, baby ibuprofen may help. As always, check with your pediatrician before giving any medication to your baby.

Bagi gak dia makan mainan dia tapi yang rasa selamat untuk masuk mulut la. Kalau ubat2 nih takyah kot. Lagipun macam dia nak bukak mulut untuk kita kan?

Travelling Sleeping

Hi naem!
Have you traveled with Aiman yet? How did he react to flying or the long car ride? Some babies are naturals while others take some time to get used to the idea. Giving him lots of love and reassuring him that you are there will help him to relax.

Penah je travel long distance ngan Aiman hari tu time Raya blik kampung kt Johor. Mind you yang kiteorng balik hari okey? hehe. Because the next day my parents had to go to Mesir for work. And tau tak sepanjang perjalanan apa yang Aiman buat?

Tido.

Tak bangun-bangun.

Sampai baru bukak mata.

Next time bleh la jalan2 lagi ye. Kan Daddy? :p

Foods To Avoid

Hi naem,

The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) recommends you begin introducing solid foods to your baby around six months of age to ensure he receives proper nutrition. While you are preparing for this momentous milestone, keep in mind there are a number of foods you should not give your baby until he is older, including:

Wheat: Wheat is the most common grain allergen so you should not give your baby wheat or wheat products until he is six to eight months old and can handle rice and oats.

Honey: Honey can harbor spores of botulism, which can grow and produce life-threatening toxins in your baby's intestinal tract. Do not give your baby honey until he is older than one year.

-->Seriously, hari tu ingat nak campur sket honey dalam susu soya dia (untuk pelan peralihan) biar rasa manis sket. Tatu lak pasal nih. Have to do some research!

Cow's Milk: Giving a baby cow's milk too early can cause childhood allergies. Wait to introduce cow's milk until he is one year old.

Eggs: Infants older than nine months can have egg yolks, but wait until your baby is older than one year to give him the protein-rich whites.

-->Aku pun allergic ngan telor gak. Tapi kek, kuih raya sume aku bedal. Tapi kalau makan banyak sangat tu bila breastfeed Aiman, dia pun naik merah2 gak.

Citrus: Check with your pediatrician before giving citrus juice to your baby as it can cause allergies.

Peanuts: Peanuts and peanut butter can cause violent allergic reactions and shouldn't be given to children younger than 3 years old.

-->Ni satu lagi my allergies. Memang takleh rasa langsung. Terus gatal tekak. Uweeek!

-->Ayam : aku tak allergic ayam, tapi Aiman ye. Sebab bila aku makan ayam, breastfeed, nanti muka badan sume naik merah2 gatal. Sian dia. Kena pakai callemine lotion. Seminggu baru hilang. Dah lama tak rasa KFC :(

-->Seafood : Ni aku tak allergic, tapi Aiman. Dah lama gile tak makan udang sotong ketam. Hmmmmm teringinnnnn...

Separation Anxiety

Separation anxiety and stranger anxiety occur when your child develops the mental ability to remember objects and people when they are no longer present, a skill called object permanence. Once your child has this skill he or she will probably search for his favorite toy when it has been put away or drops out of sight and cry whenever you are not in sight, because his memory is still incomplete and he has no sense of time, he believes that once you leave, you are gone forever. Stranger anxiety tends to develop in association with separation anxiety as the child gets better at telling the difference between familiar and unfamiliar faces and becomes more fearful of faces he doesn't know.

Most children exhibit some degree of separation anxiety around 6 to 8 months of age that lasts for 2 to 4 months; however, the age of the child and duration of the anxiety may vary greatly. Many children go through a second phase of separation anxiety around 18 months of age that eases as communication skills improve, and some children develop severe separation anxiety at night even when mom and dad are in the next room. A child's temperament plays a big role in the degree and duration of separation anxiety, so a child who adapts to new changes easily will probably have less anxiety than a child who has a difficult time with change.

-->Okay, Aiman skang dah 5 bulan nak masuk 6 bulan. maybe dia akan rasa separation anxiety nih. Tapi kalau pegi ke tempat2 dia tak biasa ke takde la pulak dia nangis. Aiman memang tak slalu nangis. Good boy anak mommy ni. Kalau malam pun mak uda dia bawak kuar dari bilik ke turun bawah ke dia takla nangis. So hopefully Aiman tak meragam sangat bila mommy nak pegi sabtu nih

Symptoms of normal separation anxiety include increasing unease and crying when separated from you or when you show signs of leaving. He or she may also exhibit whining, clinginess or insistence on physical contact with you, shyness, unusual silence, and an unwillingness to interact with others, even if they are familiar.

What to Do?

The root cause of separation anxiety is your child's inability to understand that you will return at some point after you leave, so teaching your child this concept will help him get over separation anxiety more quickly. Games such as peek-a-boo and "where's the baby?" are helpful in demonstrating this idea. To play "where's the baby," cover your baby's head with a small blanket or towel and ask "where's the baby?" and then pull the cloth off your baby's head and say "There you are!" You can also put the blanket over your head and let him pull it off you. You can also play a simplified version of hide-and-seek by partially hiding yourself behind a piece of furniture and then calling to your baby to come find you.

-->Slalu gak main nyorok2 ngan dia. Permainan yang paling Aiman suka kot. Main mommy nyorok dalam selimut la, Cover muka ngan bantal la, tutup muka ngan tangan etc. Dia akan tergelak n tersenyum je. So mommy dah well trained kan anak mommy nih :)

You can also practice trial separations with your baby. Tell him that you will be going into another room and that you'll be back soon. Repeat the assurances as you leave and talk to him from the other room to demonstrate that you still exist, even though he cannot see you. After a few moments, come back in the room. Gradually increase the length of these practice separations and he will eventually learn that it's okay if you are gone for a little while and that you'll always return.

When you do leave your baby, don't sneak away when he isn't looking; this will frighten and confuse him and will only exacerbate his feeling of abandonment. Instead, make your good-byes short and sweet when you leave. Tell your baby you love him, give him a kiss, say good-bye and tell him that you'll be back soon and then leave. Resist the temptation to return if he begins crying - this will only make it more difficult and develop bad habits. Also try to fight back any tears of your own if your baby gets upset, as hard as it may be to leave him. If she sees or senses that you are agonizing over the separation, it will only enhance his fear and insecurity. Try giving your baby favorite objects to comfort him while you're away, especially something that smells like you, such as your pajamas or a soft sweater you recently wore.

-->Ni dah slalu buat hehe. Kalau nak turun bawah nak siapkan air mandi dia (Aiman still mandi air panas hehe) when en.hubby takde, nak kena masak ke, sidai baju ke, slalu la mommy kena letak dalam cot dulu, kiss2 dulu cakap bye2, "Mommy turun bawah jap ye Aiman. Jangan nangis tau". Slalu tu okey je la. Tapi kengkadang tu meradang gak dia hehe. Kalau dia tegah baring elok je tu, dia akan main2 ngan jari2 dia. Buat2 kira jari la, macam angkat tangan baca doa pun ada hehe. Tapi kalau dia tengah meniarap tu kejap je dia tahan. Pastu mesti bising. Penat la tu :p

Separation anxiety is worse when your child is tired, hungry or sick, so try to avoid leaving if she's ill, and feed her before you go, and make sure she gets her nap that day. This is also not the time to try out a new babysitter, so if possible, choose a caregiver that your child knows well. However, if you do have to use an unfamiliar sitter, have him or her spend extra time getting to know your baby before you leave and make sure your child is comfortable with the individual before you say good-bye.

-->Aiman akan tinggal ngan nenek n atuk dia (my parents) selama 6 minggu la. So sebabkan dia dah biasa ngan nenek atuk, i made the decision to let nenek n atuk bela jap. Kejap je ye Aiman. Kalau mommy bleh balik weekend, mommy amek the first flight home :) Mommy loves you!!!